Don't take a jealous attitude toward others. When others disparage you in public or cause trouble for you, don't react or let your mind and feelings be disturbed. Potowa said:
Because all of us, though we are dharma persons, have not made dharma a remedy for egoclinging, we are more sensitive than a newly healed wound. We are more caught up by irritations than Tsang-tsen. This is not effective dharma. Dharma, to be effective, must remedy ego-clinging.
From The Great Path of Awakening : An Easily Accessible Introduction for Ordinary People by Jamgon Kongtrul, translated by Ken McLeod. Copyright 1993 by Ken McLeod.
Published by arrangement with Shambhala Publications, Inc., Boston.
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